英语翻译Has your child been living at home since graduating from

英语翻译
Has your child been living at home since graduating from college?By one astonishing
estimate(估计),as many as 80％ of 2009 grads,usually jobless,are back at home．
You may complain a lot if so．“ The trick is finding a balance between your new
relationship and guiding your child toward independence．”says Elina Furman,author of Boomerang Nation．“Parents have to understand they can’t hesitate(犹豫),because that will make young adults feel unable to live on their own．” So you should sit down together and set certain rules：
Whether it’s $50 and some housework or simply$300 a month,your child should
contribute to the household．But don’t run off on vacation with that money．This could be an opportunity to teach the importance of saving for retirement or life goals．Furman advises investing(投资)your kid’s rent so he Can use it for,say,his first apartment．
Too many young adults think that if they Can’t find a job inⅡ1eir chosen career,they don’t have to be working．Not true．While your child looks for that dream job,he should earn small wages in fields such as food service or child care．You shouldn’t have to monitor her job hunt,but if she isn’t getting anywhere,it’s time to
step in．Talk about career moves she may be missin9．Consider meeting with a career counselor(职业规划顾问)to help get your child on the right course．
Set a cutoff time,because it’s easy to keep pushing off moving out．Fixing a date will encourage your child to find a job．And you’11 feel a sense of comfort knowing that your child won’t live at home forever．
“The more specific you get now,the less likely that conflict will break out later,” Furman says．
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你的孩子大学毕业后还住在家里?一个惊人的估计表明,2009年,有80%的毕业生通常由于没找到工作而回到家里.如果这样你可能会有许多抱怨.Boomerang Nation的作者Elina Furman说：“这个把戏正在寻找你和孩子之间关系的平衡并且引导他们走向独立,父母们必须理解他们的坚决,因为那样会使年轻人觉得他们不能独立生活.”你该和他们一起坐下来并制定一些明确的规则：
做一些家务得50美元或者一个月300美元,但不要让她花在度假上.这会是一个教育他学会为退休或其他生活目标省钱的重要性.Furman建议可以用这些钱为你孩子的房子投资那样他就可以用它来有我们所说的第一个家了.
太多的年轻人认为如果他们不能找到他们选择的职业的工作,他们就不去工作.这显然是错误的.当你的孩子寻找他理想工作的时候,他应该在其他像餐厅服务员,帮忙照顾孩子这样的领域赚些钱.你不需要总催她去找工作,但是如果她一点努力也不做,那就是时候插手了.和她讨论一下她理想工作的动态,考虑让她去职业规划顾问那里得到正确的帮助指导.
定一个期限,因为她很容易就懈怠了.定一个日期可以督促鼓励你的孩子找到工作.并且当你知道她不会一直住在家里时也会感到欣慰.
Furman说：“你现在做越详细的准备,将来就会有更小产生冲突的可能.”