英语翻译Follow your mindsWho's in control of your life Who's pul

英语翻译
Follow your minds
Who's in control of your life Who's pulling your strings?For the majority of us ,it's other people ,society,friends,family or our religious community .We learnd this way of opearating when we were very young ,of course .we were brainwashed.We discovery that feeling important and feeling accepted was a nice experience and so we learned to do everything we could do make other people like us .As Oscar Wilde puts it ,"most people are other people .Their thoughts are someone else's opinions ,their lives a mimicry ,their passions a quotation ."
So when people tell us how wonderful we are ,it makes us feel good .We long for this good feeling like a drug ---we are addicted to it and seek it out wherever we can .Therefore ,we are so eager for the approve of others that we lived unhappy and limited lives ,failing to do the the things we really want to .Just as drug addicts and alcoholics live worsened lives to keep getting their fixs ,we worsen our own existence to get our own constant fix of approve .
But just as with any drug there is a price to pay .The price of the approval drug is freedom ---the freedom to be ourselves .The truth is that we can not control what other people think .People have their agenda ,and they come with their own baggage and ,in the end ,they're more interested in themselves than in you .Furthermore ,if we try to live by the opinions of others ,we will build our life on sinking sand .Everyone has a difficult way of thinking and people change their opinions all the time.The person who tries to please everyone will only end up getting exhausted and probably pleasing no one in the process .
So how can we take back control I think there's only one way ---make the conscious decision to stop caring what other people think .We should guide ourselves by means of a set of values---not values imposed from the outside by others ,but innate values which come form within .If we are driven by these values and not by the changing opinions and values system of others ,we will live a more authentic ,effective purposeful and happy life .

跟随你的心谁在控制你的生活?谁是你拉弦?对于我们中的大多数,这是其他人,社会,朋友,家人或宗教社区.我们知道这样的运作在我们很小的时候,当然我们被洗脑了.我们发现,感觉重要和感觉接受是一个很好的经验,所以我们学...