英语翻译Elva Robison will never forget the phone call she receiv

英语翻译
Elva Robison will never forget the phone call she received one September morning.Her daughter,Dianne ,a 22-year-old college student,had been killed in a car accident.
The weeks and months that followed were full of grief for Elva .Relatives,church members and neighbors in her tiny farming town of blue Mound,Kan.,reached out to her and her family.But Elva drew the greatest comfort from her old high school student,Irma Hyson .It happened that Irma had lost her 21-year-old daughter,Nancy ,in a car accident just a year before.
Now Irma and Elva would spend hours crying and talking about their daughters.Sometimes they would bring flowers to the cemetery together.Irma understood like no one else what Elva was feeling,and that gave Elva strength.
In the many years since then,the two women have continued to share in one another’s losses,hardships—and joys.“I don’t know what I’d do without her,” Elva says of Irma .“I’ve told her,’ You have saved my life.’ And I know she feels the same way about me.”
Some studies find that having a wide range of social contacts—belonging to church and community groups as well as having a network of friends— offers the greatest protection.But others show that the most important is having been just a few close friends—“Quality beats quantity all the time,” says Laura Carstensen of Stanford University .Elva and Irma would surely agree.Five years after Irma ’s daughter died,her husband,Paul ,was killed in a tractor accident.Elva immediately went to Irma ’s side and helped with household tasks and anything else she could.“She practically lived here for a while,” Irma says.
When Elva ’s husband,Truman ,died in January 2001,Irma stayed close by her side.Elva ’s doctor suggested she get counseling（心理咨询）or join a support group for the bereaved（失去亲人的）.But Elva told him she really didn’t need any of that because she had Irma .
Both celebrating their 84th birthdays this year,the two best friends still drive,travel and keep guns handy to scare the wolves off their farms.
In fact,there’s solid scientific evidence that friendship can extend life.People with strong social networks are shown to:
increase their chances of surviving life-threatening illnesses;
have stronger immune（免疫）systems;
improve their mental health;
live longer than people without social support.

萧亚轩罗宾逊永远不会忘记九月的一个早晨,她接到电话.她的女儿,黛安,22岁的大学生,在一场车祸中丧生.
此后的几个月里充满了悲伤,哦.亲戚,在她小小的农业镇蓝丘教会成员和邻居,坎.,达到了她和她的家人.但萧亚轩画的最大安慰她的老高中学生,欧玛希森.碰巧,欧玛已失去了她21岁的女儿,南茜,一年前在一场车祸中.
现在欧玛和埃尔娃会花时间哭泣,谈论他们的女儿.有时,他们会带着鲜花到墓园一起.Irma知道没有人喜欢什么萧亚轩感觉,这给了萧亚轩强度.
在很多年之后,有两位妇女继续分享彼此的损失,同甘共苦.“我不知道没有她我该怎么办,”萧亚轩说欧玛.“我告诉她,“你救了我的命.”我知道她对我也是这样的感觉.”
一些研究发现,具有广泛的社会接触,属于教堂和社区以及网络的朋友-提供最大的保护.但其他人表明,最重要的是有几个亲密的朋友-“质量比数量的所有时间,说：”劳拉Carstensen斯坦福大学.萧亚轩和欧玛肯定会同意的.五年后,欧玛的女儿死了,她的丈夫,保罗,是在一个拖拉机事故中丧生.萧亚轩立即IRMA的身边,帮助做家务和其他任何她能.“她在这里住一段时间,”艾玛说.
当萧亚轩的老公,杜鲁门,2001年一月去世,欧玛呆在她的身边.萧亚轩的医生建议她去咨询（心理咨询）或加入一个支持小组为失去亲人（失去亲人的）.但萧亚轩告诉他,她真的不需要,因为她爱玛.
无论是庆祝自己的第八十四岁生日的那一年,两个最好的朋友开车旅行,并保持枪上吓唬狼离开他们的农场.
事实上,有确凿的科学证据表明,友谊可以延长寿命.具有较强的社会关系的人所：
增加他们的生存机会威胁生命的疾病；
有更强的免疫系统（免疫）；
提高大学生的心理健康；
活的比没有社会支持的人更长