英语翻译The word "winner" and "loser" have many meanings.When we

英语翻译
The word "winner" and "loser" have many meanings.When we refer to a person as a winner,we do not mean one who makes someone else lose.to us,a winner is one who responds authentically by being credible,trustworthy,responsive,and genuine,both as an individual and as a member of a society.
Winners do not dedicate their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be; rather,they are themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance,maintaining pretence,and manipulating others.They are aware that there is a difference between being loving and acting loving,between being stupid and acting stupid,between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable.Winners do not need to hide behind a mask.
Winners are not afraid to do their own thinking and to use their own knowledge.They can separate facts from opinions and don't pretend to have all the answers.They listen to others; evaluate what they say,but come to their own conclusions.Although winners can admire and respect other people,they are not totally defined,demolished,bound,or awed by them.Winners do not play "helpless",nor do they play the blaming game.Instead,they assume responsibility for their own lives.

“胜利者”和“失败者”有很多意义.当我们称一个人为赢家,我们并不意味着他要使其他人失去.我们,胜利者就是一个真实反应的人,可信,可靠,灵敏,和真正的,无论是作为个人还是作为社会成员.
胜利者不会用一生的时间概念,他们想象他们应该是什么；相反,他们是他们自己并不会把精力用来表演,保持矫饰和操纵他人.他们知道,有区别的是爱与装爱,和大智若愚之间,真才实学与故作高深.获奖者不需要躲藏在面具后面.
赢者不怕独立思考和运用自己的知识.他们能够区分事实与观点,不要假装知道所有的答案.他们倾听他人；评估他们所说的,但得出自己的结论.虽然胜利者也钦佩和尊重其他人,他们是不完全定义,拆除,约束,或由他们敬畏.赢家不会玩“无助”,也不会怨天尤人.相反,他们承担起自己的生活责任